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Love of My Life What happens when you meet the love of your life, and you know it because for the first time in your life your heart, mind and spirit all agree, but the age is all wrong? I'm a 42 year old woman, in love with a 70 year old man. Like any relationship, it has it's great and not so great moments. But we click in ways I only dreamed were possible in relationships -- intellectually, spiritually, and even physically -- to the point where we're wondering what's wrong with us. We've tried breaking up, and spending time apart, and being just friends, and it just doesn't help. This seems so transcendent of simple "Daddy issues" or "the older man wanting to feel young again." This love seems deeply rooted in friendship and mutual respect. Cupid, do we really have a chance? How does this happen? What should we do? 40 Something and Befuddled Dear 40 Something Email your questions to: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it
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Cupid Author: Elissa Heyman
"We learn most of our important life lessons from people we love. Love binds us to those who have something to teach us. Ultimately, the goal is to learn through good experiences and choices. (Don’t we all want to be happy?) In the meantime, partnerships and romance raise a lot of questions..." Elissa Heyman
Psychic advice columnist Elissa Heyman practices psychic counseling and healing in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and around the world via telephone. She offers her services through individual and group sessions, call-in radio shows, and in her monthly column of predictions and personal guidance. Her professional mission is to use her intuitive skills and talents to support her clients. She also helps people get in touch with their intuition. Contact: www.elissaheyman.com
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What happens when you meet the love of your life, and you know it because for the first time in your life your heart, mind and spirit all agree, but the age is all wrong? I'm a 42 year old woman, in love with a 70 year old man. Like any relationship, it has it's great and not so great moments. But we click in ways I only dreamed were possible in relationships -- intellectually, spiritually, and even physically -- to the point where we're wondering what's wrong with us. 




















