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 Are there karmic or physical consequences for breaking someone’s heart or for adultery? I fell in love with a man and I’ve never been happier, but my ex is miserable and I can’t stop feeling guilty.Feeling Guilty Dear Feeling To answer your question, if there were “for-sure” rules like one automatically ruins their luck by doing something, and we could positively identify the consequences of breaking them, we’d all know what the hell we’re doing. It is certainly impractical for you to believe that your choice to be happy is a bad choice because someone else didn’t like it and feels bad. The rule that aligns with metaphysical law is that what is in your own highest good is ultimately in everyone else’s best interests, and you should to thy self be true. If where you belong in your heart is with the person you’re with, enjoy it; the heartfelt choice is the one that can bring you joy.  How Can I Keep My Cool?I work hard to keep positive relationships and emotional balance at my job. One man often makes dismissive or rude comments to me. He somewhat a bully. Although I have done a lot of "work" to reduce my sensitivity, today I became very upset after trying to confront him about a very rude incident where he was very rude to a customer and me while we were talking. His reaction was to make a cutting remark putting me down. Later when talking to another co-worker I began crying and had to leave work early, as I have difficulty stopping the flood of tears once they start. How can I keep my cool on such hard days. Pisces Dear Pisces Although normally, Questions for Cupid is answered by calling on the spirit of Love, your question has invoked the spirits of Wisdom and Truth. You are guaranteed a gazillion experiences like this, as long as you take other peoples’ actions personally, as long as your sense of identity is affected by what other people, acting out their own psychodramas generated by their inner wiring, see fit to do in your presence. Your presence needs to not react, and to help you, there is training, relentless training to overcome the way you are now triggered. I guarantee you it can be done. Introducing: Dr. Abraham Low, whose self-help system has helped many people deal with the frustrations of everyday life, since the 1940’s. If you value your time and want to be more at peace inside, check out Recovery-inc.org. It’s accessible in different ways, and it’s by donation so cost is never an issue.  When and How?I have arrived at a stage in my life where I want to be in a loving relationship with the right person. Hope fully leading to marriage, partnership. I have no idea how or where to meet/find this person. Can you tell me when and how this might happen for me? I do believe in Love Dear Believer: Actually, you could make it happen—people do this all the time: they tell their friends to hook them up; they go to a matchmaker; they look at personals ads in appropriate places for them. There are things one can do. It could be you have not turned your attention yet, truly, to seeking another. It feels like the order of things for you is material success, and a sense of being able to do what you want. With more freedom comes new locations, new successes, and there’s no reason you could not have a relationship. I see no block to relationships ultimately, but success and change of identity, and perhaps, where you feel you belong, Psychic advice columnist Elissa Heyman practices psychic counseling and healing in person and by telephone. Her website is www.elissaheyman.com Email your questions to: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it |
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"We learn most of our important life lessons from people we love. Love binds us to those who have something to teach us. Ultimately, the goal is to learn through good experiences and choices. (Don’t we all want to be happy?) In the meantime, partnerships and romance raise a lot of questions..." Elissa Heyman
Psychic advice columnist Elissa Heyman practices psychic counseling and healing in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and around the world via telephone. She offers her services through individual and group sessions, call-in radio shows, and in her monthly column of predictions and personal guidance. Her professional mission is to use her intuitive skills and talents to support her clients. She also helps people get in touch with their intuition. Contact: www.elissaheyman.com
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