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Cupid: Am I Cursed By My Past?
Image by Jaap SteinvoorteCan a person be cursed? I was with a very wealthy, powerful man in the publishing business, although our relationship began as a professional one. He loved my work, and as time went by, he got interested in me romantically, and I got the feeling I had better return his interest if I wanted the job. I talked myself into finding him romantic. He turned out to be kinky and very aggressive sexually, and I couldn’t handle it. This is after two years of having a terrific time in his organization as a creative consultant. I haven’t found a job that comes close since. I feel like I can’t trust my judgment anymore. I am afraid to get close to someone else. How do I get back my innocence and trust of other people?
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Cupid: I'm Upended by My Family
sad manI’m a man in my thirties and I've been drifting for many years. Miraculously, in the last few months my willpower has returned. I’ve been taking care of myself, in some ways for the first time: adequate housing, a steady job, and renewed enthusiasm for my real talent, sculpting. I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or what, but recently my crazy family has been sending me hate mail,threatening to cut me off (I receive a stipend from a family business), and when I visited for the holidays, my mother actually ordered me out of the house, when she knew I had no other place to stay. They can still upset me, even though things are a lot better—can you help me deal with them? »
 
Cupid: She Slept With My Brother!
man on beachI know this sounds right out of Shakespeare, but my issue is that my beloved little brother, to whom I was so close when we were kids, came to visit me for a month from Russia and ended up sleeping with my wife. I sent them all to Disneyworld to experience America while I worked on my school papers, and this is what happened. Although this betrayal took place decades ago, I’m ashamed to say , and my wife chose to stay with me although she never denied loving my brother too, I think I am still fuming. How could she have destroyed our family and my own family of origin? »
 
Cupid: I Left. Why Do I Feel Bad?
woman unhappy
VeryTogether's psychic columnist answers all your questions about life and love! Why, if I’m the one who left, and was relieved and exhilarated to be free, why am I still unresolved about the relationship? Why is the whole thing upsetting to me when I left for good reason? He was an Iraq war vet, one of the first to be deployed, and was fine for years when he came back. Then for some reason he developed PTSD, started drinking, and then started getting violent and almost killed me.  Bewildered »
 
Cupid: I Love Him
dating againVeryTogether's psychic columnist answers all your questions about life and love! I have started to dating an ex-boyfriend again, it has only been about five months this time around. It was about five years ago that we dated for the first time, and we had remained friends. We are having some problems and I'm not sure if I should try to make this work or if I should just walk away. I love him and I would like to see things work out between us, but I am not sure what to do.
Confused »
 
Cupid: Broke His Heart and Feeling Guilty
altBroke His Heart and Feeling Guilty
How Can I Keep My Cool?
When and How? »
 
Cupid: An Unsettling Presence
MarinelaAfter ending a very long - over 20 year - relationship because he wanted to move on, my ex moved to another state.  I also moved to a different state and have been working to get over the past and make a new life for myself. »
 
Cupid: Love of My Life
ovurl What happens when you meet the love of your life, and you know it because for the first time in your life your heart, mind and spirit all agree, but the age is all wrong? I'm a 42 year old woman, in love  with a 70 year old man. Like any relationship, it has it's great and  not so great moments. But we click in ways I only dreamed were possible in relationships -- intellectually, spiritually, and even physically -- to the point where we're wondering what's wrong with us. »
 
Cupid: My Heart Is Not In It
dragunskAfter a long time of waiting, there is a man who seem to have most of the qualities you want in a partner..and he is in love with you....but your heart is not in it. What is it? Are your fears ruling your emotions or do you subconsciously realize that despite of all his good qualities he is not your soul mate..How do you distinguish? What do you do? »
 
Cupid: He's Wonderful, But...
affectionate male coupleI got together with this guy (I’m gay), and we have so much in common! He’s solid, spiritual—a really good person. But when we actually became intimate, there was a pulling back: I like hairy men and he had no hair! I’m going out with him again because there’s a lot of similarity, but what should I do with the fact I’m into bearish guys and he’s hairless? »
 
Cupid: Did I Jeopardize My Chances?
sad womanI was in a relationship and I thought he was the one—I was totally, absolutely in love. I gave him five years to commit and he wouldn’t, and then I found out that in the last year he’d been cheating on me. That was seven years ago, and I’m wondering if I set up some pattern that stops me from finding love again. I have a lot to give but I’m afraid it will be taken away from me. Did I do something bad to my future prospects by attracting this person who hurt me?
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Breaking Up

If You Are Going Through Hell, Keep Going
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Cupid Author: Elissa Heyman

cupid"We learn most of our important life lessons from people we love. Love binds us to those who have something to teach us.

Ultimately, the goal is to learn through good experiences and choices. (Don’t we all want to be happy?)  In the meantime, partnerships and romance raise a lot of questions..." Elissa Heyman

Psychic advice columnist  Elissa Heyman practices psychic counseling and healing in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and around the world via telephone. She offers her services through individual and group sessions, call-in radio shows, and in her monthly column of predictions and personal guidance. Her professional mission is to use her intuitive skills and talents to support her clients.  She also helps people get in touch with their intuition. Contact: www.elissaheyman.com

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