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A Special Trip Where We Could Reconnect
One Couple's Experience in Intimacy Immersion  
couple at workshopSean and Colleen recently spent a long weekend in Cancun, in an exploration of Slow Sex, a new path to intimacy. They joined other couples and Nicole Daedone, founder of OneTaste and originator of Orgasmic Meditation. Through exercises and mindful sexuality practices, they explored their desires together. Writing for VeryTogether.com, Sean shared their experience. »
Orgasmic Meditation
artistic portrait woman doing orgasmic meditationExploring Conscious Sensuality

 Can the power of intimacy free us to experience a deeper connection with others and ourselves? That question is explored freely every morning in a group setting, when the residents of OneTaste Urban Center meet for orgasmic meditation.  Women, eyes closed, lie unclothed from the waist down, while men –their “research partners” stroke them. In an approach with roots in Buddhist Tantric Sexuality, couples seek to extend the woman’s peak experience. OneTaste Urban teaches mindful sexuality to open and integrate experience. »
Library Vixen: I Like My Americano Strong
Illustration by Adriana MunozIt is after the morning rush and prior to the lunch rush, the time I usually find myself at my favorite downtown coffee house. They make a perfectly strong Americano. I am a regular here, as are many others. For the last month or so I have been seeing this man, he is dark brooding, perhaps five plus years older than me. We have an acknowledged glance as two downtown coffee lovers nothing more. »
Nightmare Brunette: Your Attention Matters to Me

Illustration by Adriana MunozAnd Opens Up the World

I had an orgasm today that made me genuinely wonder, have orgasms always felt that good? It was the first time in some time that I’ve had what I used to call a “sunny come”—when nothing is forced or raw-feeling or effortful. It’s not too abrupt. It’s not too delayed. There’s no fantasy or concentration. The sensations are more than pleasure, they’re pure happiness, like my body’s been flooded with mushroom honey. And I smile while it happens, feeling my bare chest dissolve in the sunlight of the room, the little sword bone between my breasts spreading like it’s turning to air. Laughing as he gasps at the grasping of my cunt. Forgetting anything that happens afterwards. »
Javascript Feelings #1: Intimacy With Strangers
altWhen I move my mouse over the squares, I'm reminded of what it's like to be awkward in a room full of strangers. At first, we all seem to move around warily. For a moment, I forget myself and get closer than I had intended. To my surprise, it feels good.. »
Submit Your Kiss!
altSubmit your kiss to VeryTogether's Gallery of Kisses. Who knows, your lips might get net-famous! Also, send your sensual lips to your loved one for a special surprise. Use our simple Send-A-Kiss tool for guaranteed smiles! »
Ethan and Juli: "I choose you!"
A VeryTogether Love Story
altSavage Scout rolled down the streets of Troy, New York, working out with her roller derby buddies. Ethan saw her on a corner and approached her, but she didn't really focus her energy on him and blew him off. That was the first intersection.

Weeks later, Juli, aka Savage Scout, was surfing a transgender dating website, looking for love in what turned out to be the right place. Ethan's profile stopped her in her tracks. She emailed him, confident, only to have the email returned, account expired. She didn't give up. She'd chosen. She started to network, tracing the artistic, academic, adorable man.  She contacted a friend who had recently written an article about Ethan in the local paper and got a live email. When he didn't get back to her immediately she kept trying. »
Frisbee Golf: Try It!
frisbee golfIt's almost spring - a great time to try a new sport. Frisbee golf, a synthesis of golf and frisbee, has spread across the country. It’s inexpensive, popular and easy to get into. All you need is a set of discs, a frisbee golf course or portable target, and about  90 minutes for a full 18 holes. Even without a real course, players naturally improvise targets as they play. "You can play as well as you can imagine. Believe it then see it," said Derek Robins, a world champion from England. »

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Wondering How It Happens?

Long Distance Dating
You met on vacation or at a friend's wedding and the attraction was immediate. It was physical, intellectual and emotional and too potent to ignore. That first meeting was amazing, but...
How to Be Hot
Be cool. Ironically, being hot means being cool! There are many different ways to describe someone's appeal: beautiful, gorgeous, cute, pretty, handsome, and of course, hot. Of course, all of...
Clingy? Slow Down!
Have you ever been described as needy or clingy? Do you get so excited about a new friendship or relationship that you bombard the other person with attention, only to...
GuyTalk: That First Email
You met. You hit it off. And then - the first email!  Emails can easily be misinterpreted - they have no tonal inflections, body language, silences, deeper forms of communication, etc....
Money and Dating
To hear Mary Jo and Steve tell it, their first date began like one of those syrupy romance novels. MJ had coaxed Steve into eating at Chez Renee, an upscale...

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The Power of the Middle Ground by Marty Babits, LCSW, BCD